So my ex partner agreed to discuss a financial propsal that I had written to him on the 12th of September.
He first sent me his offer of a financial settlement on the 29th of August.
That was just two days after ending our relationship by telling me he was in love with another woman he had reconnected with just weeks earlier.
There was three elements.
- When I leave the property he would gift me 35,000 which I could use to redeem my mortgage.
2. If I wanted to move quickly he would rent me another property in Spain.
3. He would allow me 50% of the value of the sale of his Spanish property less the 35,000 gift.
He was allowing me €115,000 in total. He said we could get his offer signed at a notary. However, non of his financial proposal had any solid time frame.
For example, how long would he have been prepared to rent another property while stlil paying bills at the house I was already living in? How much per month was he going to have to spend on paying another rent?
Where was I supposed to go in order to leave the property before being given the “gift” of 35,000. Could I even trust a man who had just disrespected me and discarded me for another woman.